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Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationships

S11E4: The Boyfriend Manual

Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationships

Yue Xu and Julie Krafchick

Sexuality, Social Sciences, Relationships, Science, Society & Culture, Health & Fitness

4.7910 Ratings

🗓️ 9 September 2020

⏱️ 76 minutes

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Summary

Nope, this isn't like an instruction manual from IKEA but we're chatting with Vasanth about all the little things that help you become a better partner. We discuss different types of small gestures that have a huge ROI, how to adjust your moves based on your partner's love language, and why women can (and should) also be doing these little things for their partner. Follow us @dateablepodcast. Check out our website for more content, live show dates, and merchandise. Thank you to our partners for this episode: BetterHelp: Get 10% off your first month of online therapy at betterhelp.com/dateable with the code DATEABLE. Everyplate: Get 3 weeks of EveryPlate meals for only $2.99 per meal by going to EveryPlate.com and entering code DATEABLE3. Cover art Photography Credit: Larry Wong #lwongphoto Dateable is part of the Frolic Podcast Network. You can find more outstanding podcasts to subscribe to at frolic.media/podcasts WE WROTE A BOOK! HOW TO BE DATEABLE (Simon & Schuster) is available now: https://howtobedateable.com/ Want to remove distractions from your dates? Download Brick and get 10% off at https://www.getbrick.app/DATEABLE Our Sponsors: * Avocado Green Mattress: Check out their mattress and furniture sale: https://avocadogreenmattress.com/DATEABLE * Get Rain of Shadows and Endings wherever books are sold or at Kensington Publishing https://www.kensingtonbooks.com * Quince: Get free shipping and 365 day returns at https://quince.com/dateable * Ruggable: Get 10% off your first order, sitewide, with promo code DATEABLE at https://ruggable.com Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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0:00.0

The dateable podcast is an insider's look into modern dating that the Huffington Post calls

0:04.8

one of the top 10 podcasts about love and sex. On each episode we'll talk to real daters about everything

0:11.2

from sex parties to sex dreptts, date fails to diaper fetishes,

0:14.8

and first moves to first loves. I'm your host U.S.U. former dating coach turned

0:19.3

dating sociologist. You also hear from my co-host and producer Julie Craftchick as we explore this crazy

0:26.0

dateable world.

0:27.0

Hey everyone, welcome to another episode of dateable a show all about modern

0:35.1

dating we say this from week to week but we mean it we're trying to dig into the

0:39.0

whys of dating why people do the things they do, damn it? You want to get to the bottom of it all.

0:47.7

We got to get the answers, but that's why it makes working on this podcast so much fun because I feel like we get new answers every week and my mind is just blown all the time.

1:00.0

What are we doing this week? Like what's happening this week?

1:02.5

Well, we're recording early, that's for sure, because I'm actually going away.

1:07.3

I feel like I haven't left my house in how many months? Eight months?

1:11.8

It's crazy. So March, April, May, June, July, August.

1:17.0

Fine. Six months.

1:19.0

Eight months. That's fucking nuts though. Six months. Like, I know you haven't taken a ton of trips like you did the one last week and I mean you've seen your parents not necessarily from a leisure trip but you did get out of your house at least

1:33.0

And yeah, I'm excited.

1:35.0

I think I just like, a friend of mine was like,

1:38.0

let's go to Carmel and I'm like, yes, let's do it.

1:41.0

You know, like I'm a little concerned about the smoke

1:43.7

I'm a little concerned about COVID but I'm just like you know I'm just gonna like take

1:47.8

calculated risks and obviously be safe wear a mask all that. But I'm looking forward to leaving.

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