The dateable podcast is an insider's look into modern dating that the Huffington Post calls

one of the top 10 podcasts about love and sex. On each episode we'll talk to real daters about everything

from sex parties to sex dreptts, date fails to diaper fetishes,

and first moves to first loves. I'm your host U.S.U. former dating coach turned

dating sociologist. You also hear from my co-host and producer Julie Craft Chick as we explore this crazy

dateable world.

Hey everyone, welcome to another episode of

dateable a show all about modern dating where we dig into the why why why

why people do the things that they do.

And a lot of times it's just getting to the root of people's motivation, right?

Like instead of us trying to read each other's mind, we actually ask the question, why? Why are you doing this? Why do you think this way? And that's how we get our answers. This week has been an emotional roller coaster for me Julie I think this news about

Chadwick Bozeman has hit hard just because I think a lot of it is one I had no

idea that he was battling cancer.

I don't think many people did.

But he was also diagnosed when he was my age, 39.

I just can't believe someone of,

he appeared so healthy, he appeared so healthy he appeared so lively that he was battling

something so dark that nobody knew about it's just you just don't ever know what

anyone is going through which I think has been the other big moral of this whole podcast too right?

It's like beyond just the why it's like you have to have a little forgiveness for people too because you just don't ever know someone's situation.

It breaks my heart that his wife was by his side when this happened and made me think about,

you know, at the beginning of relationships and dating all the games people play and all the like oh did he text me back and why does she do this end of the day none of these things

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