Let's talk about age gaps specifically when the woman is younger and the man is much older.

And moreover, let's talk about why some people, namely our starring guest Anna Akana, like it that way.

I find older men, for the most part, they're more self-aware.

I don't know.

There's a lot of benefits to older men.

They have a skincare routine.

So if I forget my shit at home, I could be like, oh, babe, give me that pawn scream, you know? I like an early dinner. I like going to bed early.

And while Anna has always felt that Silver is sexy, in her younger years, she wishes that she dated more in her age range. And she would give that advice to 20-year-olds today. I would say if you're in your

20s, don't date anyone older than 30, honestly. In my early 20s, I dated a lot of older people,

and I don't think it served me. I think there was something wrong with them to be attracted to me.

Tell me more about that.

Lovers and friends.

I'm going to take you on a trip, baby.

I don't pretend.

I say, lovers and friends, I'm going to hold you down down to the end.

I said. Hi there, lovers and friends.

Welcome to the podcast called The Same Damn Thing I just said.

My name is Shambudram.

I'm a public facing sex and relationship expert.

I'm the host of this podcast and we have been

rocking for 100 or coming up on 100 episodes. And this is our first time talking about the

traditional age gap. And I say traditional because when people hear that, they think younger

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