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I mean charm. Here's Betty Rock. If you're in a relationship there's a good

chance that you've been the victim of a thing called secret spending thanks to

your significant other. Secret spending is when one person in the relationship

spends money on something minor or mundane but doesn't tell their partner. So

for instance if the two of you have made a decision to go on a diet together and

you're gonna refrain from anything that's bad for you but during your lunch break

you're like everybody's going out to get pizza. I'm just gonna have a I'm gonna

buy myself a slice right but you don't tell your significant other. That's

what I'm talking about. That's what secret spending is. And because of the

guilt that comes with keeping this secret the guilty person tries to make up for

it by doing something nice for their loved one. So the loved one just seemed

it just feels like to them. Oh that was just such a nice gesture but in reality

this is being done out of guilt. So for instance you went out on your lunch break

and ate that pizza slice. You come home and you're feeling guilty because you

don't really want to tell her. So you decide you know what I'm gonna you know

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