Ritu Bhasin On How To Find True Belonging Vs Merely Fitting In

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Kevin Miller

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🗓️ 25 March 2024

⏱️ 121 minutes

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One of the key drives of our lives is to belong. To truly belong where we are known and accepted and respected, if not loved. We often mistake fitting in for belonging. We perform to fit in at school, at work, at church, or with family. And that’s the rub, we’re performing. We’re not being ourselves. And we don’t find true belonging. My expert on belonging is Ritu Bhasin, who is a global expert on diversity, equity, and inclusion and has worked with hundreds of world-renowned organizations to help guide people to becoming their authentic selves, which as you’re about to hear is step on in belonging. Ritu has been a professional speaker for almost 15 years and has presented to 100,000s+ people globally. Her book is called We’ve Got This: Unlocking The Beauty Of Belonging. We discuss the first step in belonging is belonging to yourself. And this is the hardest step. We talked long on what being authentic really entails, when almost all of us were taught to perform. We discuss the difference between being untrue to yourself and adapting to others out of respect and love. And we cover issues of personal credibility and how those who are marginalized in any way have more barriers to cross on the path to belonging, and how they can advocate for themselves. Connect with Ritu at ritubhasin.com. Next up, we talk about how to achieve one of your greatest drives of all, the drive to authentically, belong. Head to airdoctorpro.com and use promo code KEVIN and depending on the model receive UP TO 39% off or UP TO $300 off! Sign up for a one-dollar-per-month trial period at shopify.com/kevin Use promo code KEVIN today at shipstation.com to sign up for your FREE 60-day trial. Visit Audible.com/whatdrivesyou or text whatdrivesyou to 500-500. Go to HelloFresh.com/drivefree and use code drivefree for FREE breakfast for life! Go to Seed.com/DRIVE and use code DRIVE to get 25% off your first month Visit BetterHelp.com/WHATDRIVESYOU today to get 10% off your first month. Available Nationally, look for a bottle of Heaven Hill Bottled-in-Bond at your local store. Find out more at heavenhilldistillery.com/hh-bottled-in-bond.php Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0	Yeah.
0:01.0	Welcome everyone. I'm Kevin Miller. This is the What Drives You podcast where we focus on your drive.
0:09.4	Your drive is working in some areas of your life, producing great success, yet in other areas, maybe not so much.
0:14.8	Let's get clarity on what you value, what motives are helping and hurting you, and get you fully
0:20.2	into alignment so you're driving further and faster and accepted and respected if not loved.
0:46.6	And we often mistake fitting in for belonging.
0:50.8	We perform to fit in at school and at work and at church or with family and friends and that's the rub we're performing
0:57.7	We're not being ourselves and we don't find true belonging in that so my expert that I brought in on belonging is
1:06.4	Rithu Bassin who is a global expert on diversity, equity, and inclusion and
1:12.3	has worked with hundreds of world-renowned organizations to help guide people to becoming their authentic selves, which as you're about to hear is step one in belonging.
1:23.0	Rythu has been a professional speaker for almost 15 years and is presented to
1:28.0	hundreds of thousands of people globally.
1:30.0	Her book is called We've Got This, Unlocking the Beauty of Belonging.
1:35.0	We discussed the first step in belonging and it's belonging to yourself.
1:40.0	And this is the hardest step, the most missed.
1:44.0	So we talked long on what being authentic really entails,
1:48.0	when again almost all of us were taught to perform, not be authentic.
1:52.0	We discussed the difference between being untrue to yourself and adapting to others out of respect and love.
1:58.0	And we cover issues of personal credibility and how those who are marginalized in any way have more barriers
2:06.4	to cross on the path to belonging.
2:10.2	And you got to advocate for yourself.
2:11.6	So we talk in depth about that. You can connect with RITU BHAS.com. Next up we talk about how to achieve one of your greatest drives of all the drive to
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