RHORI and The Valley with Mary Payne Gilbert
Your Bish Therapist
Melissa Reich
4.6 • 605 Ratings
🗓️ 19 May 2026
⏱️ 66 minutes
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Summary
Melissa and Mary Payne discuss RHORI, starting with Jo-Ellen’s childhood trauma, including a discussion on narcissistic mothers. They discuss the red flags around Rulla’s husband Brian, outlining two key predictors of violence and death. TW: Discussion of DV and homicide.
The pair chat the Valley, focusing Danny’s psychological underpinnings, discussing DV, Addiction and verbal abuse. The duo also discuss postpartum MH, how Luke and Danny differ, and more.
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| 0:00.0 | Hi, friends, and welcome to another episode of your Bish Therapist podcast, and today I am so happy to have my friend and yours back to the podcast. You know her from Pink Shade Podcast. Please welcome Mary Payne to the show. Hi, Mary Payne. Hello. How are you? Melissa? It's good to see you, as always. Yes, it's always good to see you. For the people who are watching the video, |
| 0:28.0 | I love your background. I love the wallpaper. You and I have similar taste in things. And so my background is some floral wallpaper, but yours is just, it's just gorgeous. Thank you. I will tell |
| 0:34.5 | you that one time I was on, watched what happens live as like a call in person and Andy stopped me before my question and said, tell me about your wallpaper. |
| 0:43.8 | That's amazing. I know. And so I later, I'm friends with John Hill. So I later texted John Hill like, here's the wallpaper. Because at the time I was like, oh, who could remember the name? I was like, I think it's Thibbilt, Tibalt, I couldn't remember. |
| 0:56.9 | But I found it since John Hill. |
| 0:58.5 | Has Andy Cohen put it in his new house? |
| 1:00.3 | Unclear. |
| 1:01.2 | And then I interviewed Ross Matthews this week because he is the host of 90-day single life coming up. |
| 1:11.3 | Right. |
| 1:11.7 | And he said he liked my wallpaper. |
| 1:14.2 | And he asked to also be put in my bio as, I have it on my Instagram bio. |
| 1:18.3 | Bravo, Andy likes my wallpaper. |
| 1:20.1 | And now he has to be added. |
| 1:22.0 | So now my Instagram bio says, Bravo, Andy, and Hello Ross like my wallpaper. |
| 1:25.8 | Yes. |
| 1:26.4 | Yeah. |
| 1:26.9 | You know, I mean, that's fair because it's fabulous and they have taste. What can I say? They have taste. I love it too. I love it too. I really want to get like a little pink, like two chairs or a couch over here, but the couch from a home goes is just going to have to do for now. Well, you know, that's always what I say. I would love to judge up my podcast space, but you girls got to be making a little more money before we do that. So yeah, the home goods couch is good for now. Yeah, for now, it's fine. That's exactly right. So for those of you who don't know, I was just on Mary Payne's podcast just a couple of weeks ago. Yeah, two weeks, I think. I feel like time flies as I'd become an adult. I'm like, was that yesterday or was that two months ago? I don't remember. So yeah, we had quite a Kiki when I was on your podcast. And so today what we are here to talk about, we're going to talk about some breaking Bravo news that came from the up fronts. We're going to talk about the Valley. We're going to |
| 2:17.8 | talk about Real House House of Rhode Island. But first, what we're going to start with is something from |
| 2:22.9 | the 90-day fiancé world because for those of you who don't know, Mary Payne, you do Bravo. You cover it |
| 2:29.3 | basically once a week. But most of what you do is covering the 90-day stuff, correct? Yeah. I'm heavy on the TLC, 90-day |
| 2:37.1 | fiancé, welcome to Plathville. And on Mondays, we do Love After Lockup, which is not TLC, but it's also, |
| 2:44.0 | it's Matt Sharp as well. We call it Mugshot Monday. And then Ladies of London was on, we switched it to |
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