(Rewind): You’re Dating Them, But They’re Not Texting Enough
Love Life with Matthew Hussey
Matthew Hussey
4.8 • 2.9K Ratings
🗓️ 26 July 2024
⏱️ 13 minutes
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Summary
What happens when someone is great on a date, but they’re terrible at communication in between? They don’t reach out, they’re unresponsive, and it makes you feel like they’re not really invested.
In this clip, Matthew, Stephen and Audrey talk about how to create your own culture in dating, leading with your behaviour, and how to reach out while keeping your self-respect.
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| 0:00.0 | Rather than simply mirroring his behavior, what if I modeled the behavior I want to see? Oh, Welcome everybody to the Love Life Podcast. I am Matthew Hussey and I believe today's episode is really going to help you |
| 0:35.5 | accelerate your love life today. Check it out and I'll speak to you at the end of the |
| 0:40.5 | episode. What do I do when there's a long break between texts, but he's great on our dates. |
| 0:50.4 | We've been on three dates and we don't chit-chat during. |
| 0:55.0 | Hmm. Three dates. So not long. |
| 0:58.0 | Firstly, we expect a lot of closure very quickly in life. And early dating doesn't offer a lot of closure. |
| 1:07.6 | You know, it doesn't offer a lot of closure on how someone is or what their intentions are or why they didn't call back or why they haven't called |
| 1:15.0 | us in two weeks but now all of a sudden want to see us. |
| 1:18.6 | Early dating is very open-ended. |
| 1:20.7 | And to an extent we sometimes underestimate our influence in the equation. |
| 1:27.0 | So we're so busy looking for closure from somebody else. |
| 1:30.0 | What do they want, what are their intentions, what are their patterns, do they want what their intentions what are their patterns do they like me why |
| 1:35.4 | aren't they texting me that we forget that we actually play a role ourselves in |
| 1:40.4 | shaping the dynamic early on. |
| 1:44.0 | Mitch Album said, if you don't like the culture, |
| 1:48.0 | you have to be brave enough to create your own. |
| 1:51.0 | He was not referring to dating but you know and that that idea |
| 1:55.4 | relates to so many different things. We often go into situations, complaining |
| 2:01.8 | about the culture of the situation. |
| 2:04.0 | We go to a party and we complain, |
| 2:06.0 | oh, it's not a very fun party. |
| 2:08.0 | Well, are you making it fun? |
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