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Love Life with Matthew Hussey

(Rewind): You’ll Push Them Away if You Try Too Hard. Do This Instead

Love Life with Matthew Hussey

Matthew Hussey

Relationships, Society & Culture

4.82.9K Ratings

🗓️ 4 July 2025

⏱️ 10 minutes

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Summary

In this week's episode of Love Life, I speak with Sarah who had just started dating her "dream guy" before things took a turn for the worst when she left for a week. With his attention lost, we discuss the subtle ways she can regain it.

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Transcript

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0:00.0

Now I'm not saying he doesn't have marvelous qualities because he could be an incredible gentleman for all I know.

0:06.0

But I also know that for you to be feeling this am wonderful. I think you're absolutely amazing. This is so cool that I actually

0:38.2

get to talk to you. It's really, it's cool for me too, you know, especially when someone

0:42.3

starts with such a wonderful level of energy. What's your question? Okay, so I haven't seen

0:49.6

this guy for about a month and a half now. Initially, we kind of hit it off.

0:55.6

We got along really, really well.

0:57.3

Kind of in my mind, he's like my dream guy in person.

1:00.6

I mean, he just kind of checked everything off from me.

1:03.5

What I kind of started to take a turn for the worst was when I told him beforehand,

1:07.5

well, I'm going to be gone for about a week.

1:09.6

I'm doing some work with a eucatry for church.

1:14.0

I'm a big church girl, so I said I'm not going to really be able to talk to you too much.

1:19.0

I will try to whenever I can.

1:21.1

So that week I was only able to call him like once or twice.

1:24.6

And when I talked to him, he was same as usual, was saying all kinds of wonderful

1:29.5

sweet things to me telling me how much he missed me. But it felt like once I got back, not that our

1:34.6

conversations changed, but it seemed like he kind of started pulling away a little bit. And I'm not

1:39.8

entirely sure why. I mean, whenever we talk, it's great. I mean, we, um, our conversations don't

1:46.2

change. There's a lot of lasters, a lot of joking around, a little bit of flirtiness. Um, but he just

1:53.3

doesn't really talk to me as much. I'm not really sure how to really grab his attention again.

1:56.7

So I'll tell you, I'll tell you one thing that's changed over the course of that month and a half

2:02.1

is you've got to like him more and more and more, right?

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