(Rewind): Why Have We Made Dating So Complicated?
Love Life with Matthew Hussey
Matthew Hussey
4.8 • 2.9K Ratings
🗓️ 1 July 2022
⏱️ 8 minutes
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Summary
If you’ve got someone in your life who’s either treated you carelessly or simply not investing, check this episode out because I’ll tell you what to do.
May my voice of reason forever haunt you in your dreams.
I don’t want to spend more time giving energy to these terms and phenomena that aren’t what you want in the first place, I’d rather give time to finding people who are serious in your life.
If you want to stop over analysing things that don’t matter, and start actually pursuing things that could matter, I have 3 habits for you that you can take on in your love life to start creating real results.
Go to 3LoveHabits.com to get your free guide. Let’s start making progress and stop wasting time.
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| 0:00.0 | Invest in someone based on how much they invest in you, not based on how much you like them. |
| 0:25.4 | Why is it that dating seems to have become so complicated? |
| 0:28.8 | I was recently on a show where I was asked about ghosting, haunting, zombying, |
| 0:35.1 | and as much as I had a wonderful time, I couldn't help but think to myself, |
| 0:38.8 | my god, why do we keep coming up with new names for things? |
| 0:42.4 | I'm going to talk to you about those three words right now, but I'm going to simplify this once and for all. |
| 0:52.7 | Let's take ghosting to begin with. Ghosting is when someone just, you know, |
| 0:56.6 | maybe we went on a couple of dates and they disappeared, they just never texted us again. |
| 1:00.3 | Maybe we were seeing someone for a long time and then they disappeared much worse. |
| 1:04.6 | We are left in this abyss of unknowing. What the hell happened? Are they okay? |
| 1:10.8 | Is there something so wrong with me that not only are they not interested, |
| 1:14.7 | but they didn't even bother to tell me that they're not interested? |
| 1:18.1 | I think that a big problem with ghosting is that we look for closure. |
| 1:21.1 | We shouldn't look for closure. We should give ourselves closure. |
| 1:24.6 | Closure can be the gift that you give to yourself and the closure is this. |
| 1:28.8 | They either don't care about me at all or they do care about me, |
| 1:34.0 | but are willing to do this to someone they care about. |
| 1:37.3 | Either way, this is enough information to move on with your life. |
| 1:42.4 | Remember this when you're looking for more information. |
| 1:45.4 | Someone not contacting you is information. |
| 1:49.4 | Disinterest is closure. |
| 1:52.3 | Number two, haunting. This was a word that got brought up to me and I'll be honest with you, |
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