(Rewind): When They Say "I Need Time," You Say This...

Love Life with Matthew Hussey

Matthew Hussey

Relationships, Society & Culture

4.8 • 2.9K Ratings

🗓️ 13 December 2024

⏱️ 6 minutes

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Summary

Ever had someone who keeps you just on the edge? Who swings between making you feel like you’re the most important person in the world and suddenly pulling away and freaking out?

Yep, it’s totally normal.

Today, I’m going to share an exclusive video clip from a live seminar where you’ll see me in a Q&A addressing someone who went through this exact situation.

It’s easy to assume in these moments that you’re the problem or to think you somehow have to figure out what’s going on in their head and convince them to make the right choice.

Instead, I want you to do this...

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0:00.0	You know, trying to bring our best to someone who's also trying to bring their best to us as we both grow
0:05.0	and as we both change over the course of a years or longer or lifetime.
0:10.0	That's not easy. Hey, everyone. It's Matthew Hussey with the Love Life podcast. Thank you so much for being here.
0:35.7	I think you're going to enjoy this clip. It's a classic
0:37.7	from the archives. Check it out. And don't forget, if you can leave us a review on iTunes,
0:42.6	it would mean the world. It helps us spread the word about this podcast. All right, let's get into
0:47.1	the episode.
0:51.3	I just want to know what's the best response when someone says, I need to take a few days
0:56.9	or several days.
0:58.3	This was in a what, in an argument?
1:00.6	No, prior to that, I guess two days ago I had to talk to him about maybe visiting, but he was kind of inebriated.
1:08.0	Where is he?
1:09.2	New York.
1:10.2	He's in New York. Are you like dating? You're in a
1:12.7	relationship or what? Not in a relationship. But I've been trying to figure out all here to me.
1:17.4	Okay, so you're not exclusive. No, but I'm not sure. Like, I don't want to push the conversation
1:22.5	when he's the one that's a, let me take a few days, several days several days whatever so I don't know what my next
1:28.1	step is okay but what did you what was it you said that made him take the break was it
1:32.8	you said I want to come visit you or was it that you said I want a relationship okay so
1:38.9	then you so then now you leave the guy and you never worry about him ever again
1:45.8	wait wait wait, wait, no, no.
1:49.4	Because we're not even talking about you asking him for exclusivity.
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