What if that takes them away from me?

You know, that job opportunity they've got, that exciting thing that's good for them.

We're afraid to encourage it because we want to keep things safe.

We don't want to lose them. This is a good thing. Hey, everybody, is Matthew Hussey with the Love Life podcast. I am excited to share this

clip with you today. Let's get into it.

I think we have a slight problem right now of a scarcity mindset. I read these comments from people

talking about their level of disillusionment, feelings that even

if they did leave the house to go and meet people, you know, there's no good people out

there anyway, or living in this place of either numbness or fear, this sense that nothing

good is going to happen. There's a side effect to this scarcity.

Even when we meet someone we like, that's the crazy part. You would think that, you know,

this scarcity is just about never meeting anyone you like. But it's actually worse than that.

Because now I feel like when people do meet someone they like, they can't even enjoy it.

Because they're so afraid it's going to go away. And if it does go away, I could spend another

year or years waiting for the next great thing to come along because there's so few of them out

there. People aren't even enjoying the thing when it's in front of them because they're terrified.

We get these feelings of desperation that we don't want it to go away.

We don't want this person to now leave us or get unattracted to us.

So we're now trying to say everything right and we're trying to make sure nothing goes

wrong with it.

We start to worry about

you know controlling what they're doing. Where are they right now? Who are they with? Could they be

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