Steve, can you imagine if we got on YouTube and like wait it for people to like show up and just

well I'll tell you more about myself when you leave more comments.

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Whatever room you're going into to meet someone, whether it's Instagram, Tinder,

Hinge, Bumble, Abar, the key is the energy you bring to the room. What's the energy you bring to

the dynamic and what is it communicating to the people you're talking to?

And don't worry if it scares off a lot of the wrong people, don't worry if a lot of people

you know are like get on the phone, no I'm not interested in doing that, don't worry about those

people because they're already showing themselves not to be that sick. I'm not saying literally

within three messages you should say what's your number let's get on a phone call.

But if you've been talking to someone for a week and there's still no

width of like you're actually having a lot of texting back and forth and there's no width of like

anything progressing to even just like a voice note or so you know what I mean like any progression.

I'm always just thinking how do people respond to a little more progression?

And I do by the way I do think one of the problems on dating apps is that it's a game of chicken where

everyone is trying to like get you know it's like who can try less

right instead of thinking let me let me do not let me try harder but let me

I see I think people confuse showing more with trying harder and they're not the same thing

showing more if I Steve if I we're texting and I leave you a voice note it can take the same

amount of time as writing a text except when you hear my voice you feel more connected to me

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