(Rewind): They Say "I Just Can't Let You Go"? Listen To This...

Love Life with Matthew Hussey

Matthew Hussey

Relationships, Society & Culture

4.8 • 2.9K Ratings

🗓️ 24 May 2024

⏱️ 6 minutes

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Summary

Have you been with someone who wants attention, connection, spends time with you...but they'll never commit? And when you ask them why they keep in touch they say something like "I just can't let you go".

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0:00.0	I am prepared to ruin your life because it's more comfortable for me to do so.
0:05.3	I just can't let you go. That's not about you. That's about him. And Hey everyone. It's Matthew Hussey with the Love Life Podcast. Thank you so much for being here. I think you're going to enjoy this clip. It's a classic from the archives. Check it out and don't forget if you can leave us a review on iTunes, it would mean the world. It helps us spread the word about this
0:43.1	podcast all right let's get into the episode.
0:48.7	When is the right time to walk away if he doesn't want to commit I was seeing a guy that I really like for a year and four months.
0:54.8	The problem is that he doesn't want to let me go and still doesn't want to commit either.
0:59.4	I don't know what to do with this situation.
1:02.2	Rent time.
1:04.5	No one can hold you anywhere.
1:09.6	He didn't put you in a cage
1:11.8	and say, I just can't let you go I'm sorry the victim is me I just
1:17.5	can't let you go while I lock you in this cage over here I'm the one who's
1:22.4	suffering I just I can't commit but I just can't let you go. I'm the victim here.
1:28.0	Stop allowing that to blind you to what's actually going on.
1:33.6	The story here is not that you have someone who's so into you, the story here is you have
1:38.7	someone who can't make a decision to commit to you. When someone says I just can't let you go, that's all about them.
1:48.6	That's all about them. And it's extreme form, that's narcissism. it's I am prepared to ruin your life because it's more
1:56.3	comfortable for me to do so I just can't let you go that's not about you has nothing to do to do with you. It's not a generous act. It's not about your well-being. It's not about your happiness. That's about him.
2:11.0	That's about his emotions, his comfort, him being able to have whatever he wants when he wants it.
2:18.3	I just can't let you go.
2:20.6	But I don't want you either, but I just can't let you go. But I don't want you either, but I just can't let you go. I am going to be Goldilocks. I just not too hot, not too cold. I just need it just right. I just need it like it's my favorite. Not committing to you, but not having you leave either. I just need my favorite. My favorite is you just giving me your time and your energy and your attention and your love and your intimacy even
2:44.9	though I don't commit. That's my favorite. That's my favorite. My favorite is not committing
2:51.5	to you, not going all in, but just not letting you go either.
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