What if they a year from now are exactly the same person with exactly the same

lack of intentions that they have today? Oh, When someone tells us that they are not ready or that they are not right now looking for a serious relationship, it puts us in a really

challenging predicament, especially if we really like the person. When we're attracted, we feel

connected to this person, we feel like they are the kind of person we have been looking for.

The one snag is that they're not in the same place as us.

I want to talk about the five mindset shifts that can help you in

dealing with exactly this situation because the reality is no matter what

anyone tells you about how ill-informed it is

to continue down the road with someone that says they don't want a relationship,

in reality, it's really difficult to take that advice. We tell ourselves things like maybe

they'll change, maybe in a month they'll feel differently. I know there have been

times in my life where I didn't want a relationship and then I did when I met

someone I really liked.

So maybe that will happen.

Maybe it's just that right now they're still getting over their relationship,

but they need help getting over that relationship.

This logic that we feed ourselves can be very very compelling.

That's why these five mindsets I'm going to give you today are so important

because I know how hard it is and you shouldn't feel shame for finding it difficult to walk away. But I really believe is The first mindset shift is asking yourself, is the situation between me and this person really equal?

And what do I mean by that?

When this woman came to me, she said, I'm dating other people as well, so we're kind of doing the same thing.

But when I asked her, is it really equal?

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