People aren't even enjoying the thing when it's in front of them because they're so afraid

It's gonna go away and if it does go away

I could spend another year or years

waiting for the next great thing to come along because there's so few of them out there

What's up everybody it's Matthew Hussie here with the Love Life podcast

If you get stuck in your own head and can't relax when you meet someone you like

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I think we have a slight problem right now of a scarcity mindset

I read these comments from people talking about their level of disillusionment

feelings that even if they did leave the house to go and meet people you know

there's no good people out there anyway or living in this place of of either numbness or fear

this sense that nothing good is going to happen there's a side effect to this scarcity

even when we meet someone we like that's the crazy part you would think that

you know this scarcity is just about never meeting anyone you like but it's actually worse than that

because now I feel like when people do meet someone they like they can't even enjoy it

because they're so afraid it's gonna go away and if it does go away

I could spend another year or years waiting for the next great thing to come along because

there's so few of them out there people aren't even enjoying the thing when it's in front of them

because they're terrified we get these feelings of desperation that we don't want it to go away

we don't want this person to now leave us or get unattracted to us so we're now trying to say

everything right and we're trying to make sure nothing goes wrong with it we start to worry about

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