(Rewind): Just Broke Up? This Conversation Will Give You the Closure You Need
Love Life with Matthew Hussey
Matthew Hussey
4.8 • 2.9K Ratings
🗓️ 27 January 2023
⏱️ 5 minutes
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Summary
A huge number of relationships that end, should end.
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But how do we know if ‘ours’ should have ended. We leave with a giant question mark: “Did I just lose the person I was supposed to be with?”
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That lack of closure is a horrible feeling that eats away at us. We don’t always get perfect closure. But there is a way of being proactive about getting peace of mind if you feel like you have someone who is worth fighting for.
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It’s through a simple conversation, and I tell you how to have it in this video.
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And here’s the good news - whatever happens, you and I are going to move into this next chapter of our lives stronger. (Massive thanks to @rayna.greenberg, @ashhess and the @girlsgottaeatpodcast for making this conversation possible!)
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| 0:00.0 | So I can't make you say yes to trying this again, but I can tell you what I'm willing to do and |
| 0:07.2 | Why would love to do to make this work? |
| 0:09.4 | Hey |
| 0:28.6 | Hey everyone, it's Matthew here |
| 0:30.6 | Have you ever had a breakup so painful that you feel like you've just lost the one person you were supposed to be with? |
| 0:36.5 | If that feels like you this clip is gonna help I spoke to the girls got to eat podcast about getting over heartbreak when it feels like you never will |
| 0:49.0 | One of the things that really freaks people out in a breakup is |
| 0:53.6 | One of the reasons they're looking for closure is is there anything I can still do like I could fix this |
| 0:59.8 | I could fix that I need them back so there's there's that element to it and I think |
| 1:04.7 | What people need is to be able to sleep at night and |
| 1:09.0 | There are productive conversations you can have with someone that will allow you to sleep at night |
| 1:14.6 | For example you saying to the person that's just broken up with you very calmly and in a neutral way I |
| 1:24.0 | Care about you deeply and I love you deeply and I believe that I'm willing to give to this relationship |
| 1:30.4 | On a level that is irreplaceable and I know that there are things that you must wish were different about this relationship or you wouldn't be ending it |
| 1:42.9 | I'm prepared to do everything in my power to work on things that I need to work on if there is anything that is |
| 1:50.8 | Genuinely falls into my lap that I need to work on I am willing to do that work because this relationship matters to me |
| 1:58.2 | If |
| 2:00.2 | If you want to make this work and you care about me and love me on the level that I do you I trust |
| 2:07.6 | That you'll give us a shot based on that |
| 2:10.6 | But if you genuinely don't want to fight for this or don't even want to allow me to fight for this |
| 2:18.0 | Then it then you must be right. This must be the wrong relationship |
| 2:22.5 | so I can't make you say yes to trying this again |
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