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🗓️ 17 May 2024
⏱️ 9 minutes
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It would be nice if we had a crystal ball telling us which romantic flings would work out at the very beginning so we didn’t invest precious time in the wrong people.
It can be hard to read someone’s intentions in the early stages.
I can’t make you a foolproof lie detector, and I can’t guarantee you’ll never be ghosted again, but I can make you a competent “detector of intentions” so you have the best possible chance of investing your time into people who are serious about a relationship with you.
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0:00.0 | If someone is telling you, I love you, I want you, this, that, blah, blah, but they're not actually investing in you, |
0:07.8 | watch their actions, not their words, because their actions matter. Hey, Matthew Husi here with the Love Life Podcast, excited for you to hear the episode today. Let's get into it. |
0:37.0 | A guy promised he'd talk to me again but has ghosted and disappeared for months now. |
0:44.4 | How do I stop feeling defeated and move on after someone leaves me clinging |
0:48.9 | onto their words like that? |
0:50.5 | Look, no one can leave you clinging on to their words. like that |
0:55.0 | power over you clinging on to their words. Never, ever, ever give someone else that power over you. |
1:00.0 | Never give someone that responsibility of giving you closure. |
1:04.3 | Closure is overrated. You're sitting there months later waiting for closure. |
1:09.6 | No, don't ever wait for closure from anyone else. |
1:14.0 | Because you may never get it. |
1:15.5 | You may waste your entire life waiting for closure from someone. |
1:18.5 | Why did they do that? |
1:19.5 | Why would they just disappear? |
1:21.0 | Why would they break my heart? |
1:22.0 | Why would they, why did they do what they did even though they said... they just |
1:23.0 | why did they do what they did even though they said that they were had completely different |
1:26.7 | intentions why did they do this instead never ever wait for somebody else's |
1:32.2 | closure what you have to do wait for somebody else's closure. |
1:34.2 | What you have to do is give yourself closure. |
1:38.3 | Give yourself that closure. |
1:39.6 | You know what, the only closure I need is that in this particular case a guy promised that he'll see me |
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