Attraction is just a box to be checked. It's not a sport.

Connections aren't the only thing that make great relationships.

Character makes great relationships. Welcome to the Love Live podcast, it's me. Matthew Hussey.

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You have to decide what's important to you and what's valuable to you because otherwise you'll do anything.

You'll say yes just because something feels exciting regardless of whether it's off brand for your company or whether you've got the time for it,

whether it fits into your top three priorities for the year,

something comes along and it just feels sexy,

it feels shiny.

But when you really step back from it,

you go, this doesn't fit with our company's values or this isn't in line with our

goals this is going to be a distraction you know the the dating equivalent to

that could be someone who wants children

and they're 38 years old and they're they end up flirting at a party with a 23 year old.

And they hit it off and there's this chemistry and it feels fun and it feels exciting and

at no point you know it's now month two and you're still seeing this person and at no point are you really acknowledging

the fact that you've got a window if you want to have children biologically and that that's really important to you.

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