Whatever it is, getting excited about it sends a message to the person you're one cares how great we're going to be in week

four or month six. So here are four things you can do to hook somebody in the first two weeks.

Number one, have a real dates only policy. It is quite common these days, as you know,

for a guy to attempt the Netflix and chill date before he's earned it.

So when a guy says to you, hey, do you want to come over later tonight?

We can order in and snuggle.

What I want you to send him is, as much as I like a snuggle, I prefer to get out into the world with someone first.

Keeps it interesting.

Number two, buy the popcorn.

Look, I don't know if you think it's a guy's job to pay for the day or not, but even if you do,

there is an awful mistake that so many people make that relates to what I talk about here.

Let me tell you what means something to a guy.

Trying. That means something to a guy.

When he feels that you're not even trying to contribute,

that's when he feels used.

Because any guy who's really confident and self-respecting,

if the woman never is even trying to contribute,

he feels like he's being taken advantage of.

And it has nothing to do with money.

It has to do with the lack of gesture.

Gestures matter.

It doesn't matter if he bought the movie and dinner that night.

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