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Love Life With Matthew Hussey

305: Subtle Flirting Moves That Actually Work

Love Life With Matthew Hussey

Matthew Hussey

Relationships, Society & Culture

4.8 • 2.9K Ratings

🗓️ 16 July 2025

⏱️ 94 minutes

🔗️ Recording | iTunes | RSS

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Summary

Does flirting make you nervous? Not sure how to make the first move? In this episode, Matthew, Stephen, and Audrey break down invisible flirting techniques that can spark chemistry without things feeling forced or awkward.

Whether you’re too shy to make a move, afraid of rejection, or just unsure about how to flirt with someone already in your life, this episode will give you the tools to take the first step forward.

Topics Covered:

  • Why flirting feels awkward or unnatural for so many people.

  • The subtle signs that actually signal romantic interest.

  • How to flirt with someone you already know.

  • Touch as a form of flirting—when it works and when it backfires.

  • The kinds of DMs that actually open the door for connection.

  • How to flirt through contrast, play, and shared jokes.

  • The difference between playful teasing and emotional defensiveness.

  • What to do if they don’t respond to your flirting attempt.

  • How to show desire without fear or desperation.

  • Flirting beyond your 20s: why it still works at any age.

 

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0:00.0

Welcome back to the Love Life podcast with me, Matthew Hussie, Stephen Hussie and Audrey Hussie.

0:10.4

We are talking today about flirting, something that feels really misunderstood by a lot of people,

0:18.2

completely avoided by others. Some people are afraid to flirt

0:22.5

because they don't want to be rejected. Other people feel like it's just not in their nature to

0:26.6

flirt. Other people feel they're too old to flirt. Some people are afraid to flirt because

0:30.6

they don't want to ruin a good friendship. What's your reason? What do you experience when you

0:37.0

try to flirt with people? Does it come naturally? Do you feel like it's not

0:41.6

working? Are you getting the attraction that you want? Or do you feel like you keep getting friends owned?

0:46.7

Today we're talking about all of these things. We've got all sorts of really wonderful things coming up.

0:51.8

We've got a love life line. Someone's called in and asked us a

0:55.7

question and we have answered it. We've had an email that's come in that Audrey refused to answer.

1:00.5

We'll talk about that. We have, what do we have, an episode of Steve's sleeves coming up.

1:08.9

Why do you always say it's so weird?

1:17.3

And if you were a love life member, one of our live lobs, we have some great stuff coming up on July the 21st. We have Own Yourself in Early Dating, which is a live coaching session with Audrey Hussey.

1:25.1

On July the 23rd, I am going to be doing a Q&A session with all of our members.

1:32.1

So if you want to ask me a question personally and be with me for that time, I'm going to be there on July the 23rd.

1:38.2

On August the 5th, Stephen is going to be doing a very special session called the Flame Method Roadmap, where he

1:45.0

shows you how to design a life this year that brings quality people into it so that you don't

1:51.1

feel like you're always having to go out into your life to meet someone from a dating app or to

1:56.8

hope that one day you're just going to miraculously bump into someone on the street.

2:01.8

All good stuff coming up.

2:03.9

That is inside Love Life.

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