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somebody called Brittany wrote into us also and she was writing in relation to a past episode

when we spoke about jealousy and exes and all of that stuff and she said that what we were talking about is actually

called retroactive jealousy and that we feel when we feel jealous and

insecure about our partners past relationships. Social media makes it super easy to

stalk exes and see what they're like. I have felt insecure when former girlfriends seem more

outgoing and social than me.

Sexier, with larger breasts, also better careers.

And I always look, she says, I always look at boobs.

That's a major one.

But I think that's quite interesting because I definitely think that women compare themselves to exes and I'm sure men compare themselves to exes as well, but it's just an interesting thing that it's called

retroactive jealousy and it's interesting to hear that you know lots of people

suffer with that I I sometimes think you you know, because we all relate to how we may suffer from that in our lives.

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