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Love Life with Matthew Hussey

236: Why You Should Feel Confident NOW

Love Life with Matthew Hussey

Matthew Hussey

Relationships, Society & Culture

4.82.9K Ratings

🗓️ 11 April 2024

⏱️ 11 minutes

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Summary

Many people think they need to wait to feel confident. Or they believe it's a special gift you're born with. Or they believe it's something that only comes after you achieve a certain goal.

Matt and Audrey sit down to explain why none of those are true. You can actually feel confident right now - and it starts with changing what part of your life you focus on.

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0:00.0

What we're not so much in the habit of doing, which is a shame, is looking down and seeing how far up the mountain we have already come. Oh, Confidence is looking backwards.

0:34.2

What do I mean by this? Yeah, what do you mean by this?

0:35.4

What do I mean by this?

0:36.8

I wanted to make a podcast episode that helped people feel more confident in 10 minutes.

0:43.2

So let's try this.

0:45.0

So much of our insecurity comes from focusing

0:49.0

on what we don't have in the present,

0:51.0

what we think we're not good at,

0:52.4

what we think we're lacking, what we're worried about in the future.

0:57.0

And so much of that to me is kind of being on the side of the mountain looking up and seeing how far it feels like there is to go.

1:06.5

And the truth is in life there will always be further to go up the mountain, right?

1:10.7

That's never going to not be the case. There's always going to be some be the case there's always going to be

1:13.2

some other level there's always going to be something we haven't achieved or

1:16.3

some way that we feel like other people have overtaken us in life or we're not

1:20.7

exactly where we thought we would be by now but what we're not exactly where we thought we would be by now, but what we're not so much

1:25.1

in the habit of doing, which is a shame, is looking down and seeing how far up the mountain we have already come.

1:34.0

I have this awful habit, I've had it forever in my life

1:38.0

and this is the reason why I come up with ideas like this

1:41.0

is because I've had to use them for myself. This habit of

1:44.5

waking up in the morning in a place of deficit. You know this? We've talked about it.

1:48.8

It's a horrible feeling of waking up feeling like almost starting the day from a point of going

1:56.1

I'm not enough I haven't done enough I'm not far enough I need to do more I need to do so much today that by the time I go to bed, although I'm dying on my feet and I feel like I've exhausted myself and nearly burnt out, I earned my medal today. It's almost like going back to a place of like

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