(Rewind): Don't Like Their Behavior? Use These 3 Simple Tips!
Love Life with Matthew Hussey
Matthew Hussey
4.8 • 2.9K Ratings
🗓️ 22 March 2024
⏱️ 9 minutes
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Summary
Maybe they didn't call when they said they would. Or they're a little ignorant about something that’s important to you. Or appeared to take something you did for granted.
It might not be terrible behavior, but you know it’s behavior you don’t want to be a pattern for the rest of your relationship.
So how do you handle the conversation without letting your emotions get the better of you? I.e. without reacting in a way that would hurt rather than help the relationship...
In this week’s episode, I’m going to give 3 steps of exactly how to handle this difficult conversation, so that you can handle it in a productive way when it happens.
This is how you make them want to be a better person for you...
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Transcript
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| 0:00.0 | Our first reaction to something is us just guessing at it. |
| 0:04.4 | We're making a decision based on a story we've constructed in our minds, |
| 0:09.4 | not on the reality of what's actually going on. Hey everyone. It's Matthew Hussey with the Love Life Podcast. Thank you so much for being here. I think you're going to enjoy this clip. It's a classic from the archives. Check it out and don't forget if you can leave us a review on iTunes, |
| 0:42.8 | it would mean the world. |
| 0:43.8 | It helps us spread the word about this podcast. |
| 0:46.2 | All right, let's get into the episode. |
| 0:51.8 | In this video, I give you three simple steps to bringing up something your partner has done that you don't like in a way that strengthens instead of weakens your relationship. |
| 1:02.0 | See we got a comment in the last couple of weeks that I wanted to address. |
| 1:07.0 | Sophie B says, |
| 1:08.0 | So this is not a direct criticism, |
| 1:10.0 | but I would love to see some videos about how to maintain a good relationship. |
| 1:14.6 | I've got the guy, but new problems start to come up. |
| 1:17.8 | How can I fight in an effective way? |
| 1:19.8 | What can I do to maintain a good energy in my relationship? |
| 1:23.3 | And how can I work on myself within a relationship? |
| 1:26.2 | All of us, when we meet someone special, |
| 1:28.6 | are going to have a moment where that person does something |
| 1:31.2 | we don't like. |
| 1:32.7 | And in that moment, we are either gonna have a reaction |
| 1:35.7 | that hurts or helps our relationship that destroys or builds. |
| 1:40.0 | This will depend on the meaning we give |
| 1:42.3 | to what someone else has done. |
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