(Rewind): 7 Confidence Secrets That Make You More Attractive
Love Life with Matthew Hussey
Matthew Hussey
4.8 • 2.9K Ratings
🗓️ 15 July 2022
⏱️ 8 minutes
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Just because we've accepted it's over, it doesn't mean we've truly moved on. We can still obssess, think about past times, and romanticize someone in a way that stops us ever moving forward. If you're stuck right now, don't miss this message and take your power back!
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| 0:00.0 | Instead of trying to get confident about something you can never be certain of, |
| 0:04.6 | just change the focus of where you're looking for certainty and you can immediately be more confident. |
| 0:10.0 | Welcome everybody to the Love Life podcast. I am Matthew Hussey and this is a clip from the archives |
| 0:34.1 | that I think is really going to help you with your confidence today. Check it out and I'll speak |
| 0:38.7 | to you at the end of the episode. |
| 0:44.5 | Confidence. I feel like that is the most attractive thing about a person. I think you say that in |
| 0:50.8 | your book it's something that we hear over and over and over that the most attractive thing you |
| 0:54.9 | can ever wear is confidence. So I want to hear from you what does confidence look like because |
| 1:02.1 | I think a lot of us kind of see a specific person or a specific type when we think of confidence. |
| 1:08.0 | But from you what is it? Yeah I suppose there is a kind of caricatured version of confidence which |
| 1:14.0 | is just someone who is very bold, quite outspoken occasionally I suppose just gregarious. |
| 1:23.2 | You know we think of someone who's very outgoing. I think that's a that isn't a true definition |
| 1:29.2 | of confidence. The dictionary definition of confidence is a feeling of certainty about something |
| 1:35.9 | and of course that doesn't necessarily imply good or bad. We can feel secure right now having |
| 1:42.3 | this conversation because I'm certain that the ceiling isn't about to fall on my head. |
| 1:48.0 | You know that's just a feeling of certainty that gives me a level of comfort and ease. |
| 1:54.4 | You know I can have a feeling of comfort right now because I'm certainly that I can have this |
| 1:59.7 | conversation with you because I've done a lot of public speaking in my life over the last 14 years |
| 2:06.0 | and therefore feel a sense of comfort and certainty about my ability to to do this. So there is a |
| 2:15.1 | kind of confidence that comes from certainty and in a lot of areas of our life that can come from |
| 2:22.4 | certainty can come from competence from having done something a lot and being good at it. So you |
| 2:30.2 | could be you know you are of course extraordinarily competent on stage Lindsay and therefore |
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