(Rewind): 5 Shortcuts to Finding Love (Even if You Hate Dating)
Love Life with Matthew Hussey
Matthew Hussey
4.8 • 2.9K Ratings
🗓️ 29 March 2024
⏱️ 10 minutes
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Summary
Dating fatigue is real.
Given the option, I think most people would choose to bypass the process entirely and skip directly to being in a meaningful relationship.
But since science isn’t quite there yet, how can you manage your energy so the dating process—the part you need in order to FIND that relationship—doesn’t burn you out before you even GET to the good stuff?
In today’s video, I share 5 tips that will help you find an energy-replenishing relationship rather than an energy-depleting one. You’ll learn how to:
• Ease into getting to know someone rather than pinning all your hopes and dreams on them.
• Communicate from a place of strength rather than insecurity.
• Match your investment and energy to the stage of the relationship you’re actually in.
You’ll want to bookmark this video and rewatch it before any date.
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| 0:00.0 | Someone said to me once, Matthew, just because you can cook a five-star gourmet meal, |
| 0:05.2 | it doesn't mean you should do it for every person who knocks on the door of your house. So, Welcome everybody to the Love Life podcast. I am Matthew Hussey and this is a clip from the archives that I think is really |
| 0:36.0 | going to help you today. Check it out and I'll speak to you at the end of the |
| 0:40.6 | episode. The truth is, most people who watch this channel want a relationship. |
| 0:49.0 | Relationships? |
| 0:50.0 | Yes. |
| 0:51.0 | Dating? |
| 0:52.0 | I don't want that. That? That's most people's approach to this is please anything but dating. I want a relationship though. |
| 1:00.3 | So how do you manage your energy so that the dating process, the part that you need to do to get to a relationship |
| 1:07.1 | doesn't burn you out before you ever get one? Here are five ways to manage your energy in the process. |
| 1:12.2 | Number one, be wary of projecting your hopes |
| 1:16.4 | and dreams onto the person you're on a date with. So many people start dating somebody, they get over excited about that |
| 1:24.5 | person, they get excited about the projection of them, not the real them, how could |
| 1:28.3 | they, they barely know this person, and all of a sudden the stakes become very |
| 1:32.0 | high, because it becomes very important |
| 1:35.2 | that this goes well because after all this is the right person. |
| 1:39.3 | You're projecting your hopes, your dreams onto the person in front of you. |
| 1:44.2 | They are a blank canvas on which to put everything you've always wanted in your love life. |
| 1:49.2 | When the stakes go up like that, so does your adrenaline adrenaline your energy starts to spike as you give |
| 1:55.2 | more and more to this person even if you don't show it to this person just the |
| 1:59.5 | anxiety that comes with having made them so important, burns energy. |
| 2:05.0 | Remember this, getting to know someone, |
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