(Matt Monday): If You Hear THIS From Your Long-Distance Partner... RUN!
Love Life with Matthew Hussey
Matthew Hussey
4.8 • 2.9K Ratings
🗓️ 1 April 2024
⏱️ 12 minutes
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Summary
Long-distance relationships are a tough gig.
You miss each other. You feel like a separate part of their life at times. And you don’t always know when you’ll be together again. So . . . is it worth it? Well, it depends.
Long-distance relationships are tough, but there are warning signs that can help tell you if it’s likely to work long-term. In fact, there’s one thing someone can SAY to you that basically guarantees a long-distance relationship won’t last, and I share it in this episode.
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| 0:00.0 | Confusion is where we go when we don't want to confront how hurtful a situation is. |
| 0:06.8 | Confusion keeps us in the game. Oh, There's a certain thing that if someone says it to you is a pretty sure sign that your long distance |
| 0:35.5 | relationship will not work out and I want to give you that today and also what you can |
| 0:40.3 | do if you find yourself in this situation. |
| 0:45.6 | I want to tell you about something really exciting I'm doing at the moment. |
| 0:49.1 | I'm going to explain more at the end, but basically I have a brand new newsletter called the Three Relationships. |
| 0:56.8 | You can sign up at the Three Relationships.com. I'll leave a link here. |
| 1:02.2 | This is a personal email written by me sent to you every |
| 1:08.0 | Friday and the feedback on this so far has been amazing I've been doing it in private for my existing mailing list and people have absolutely loved it. I just haven't talked about it to the world yet. I've been doing it all year and it's now become one of my favorite things that I do. |
| 1:22.6 | So if you're not signed up go to the three relationships.com |
| 1:27.6 | and I'll tell you a little bit more about the theme of this and what it's all about |
| 1:30.7 | at the end of the video. |
| 1:38.0 | Somebody recently came to me with a question about her long distance relationship. She had been seeing someone for seven months. |
| 1:41.0 | In that time she had been talking to him regularly pretty much every day by |
| 1:44.4 | text or by phone. She described the amazing connection they have, the incredible chemistry |
| 1:49.4 | that she felt, the way that she felt the conversation was great, the way she thought he was great but the reason she had brought the situation to me |
| 1:57.6 | was because she asked him for exclusivity and he gave her an incredibly convoluted and confusing |
| 2:06.2 | answer about where she stood with him what he was available for the fact that he wasn't quite there for a relationship |
| 2:15.0 | but he did see them as maybe being exclusive in their arrangement as he put it. |
| 2:20.0 | The bottom line was, even I, by the end of everything she said that he said felt |
| 2:25.2 | completely and utterly bewildered by all of the language he was using and how |
| 2:30.0 | confusing that must have been for her. |
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