A story when someone is telling it isn't a moment for us to be impressive.

It's not a moment for us to be significant,

it's a moment for us to make them feel significant. grab a pen, pen, grab some paper, because I'm about to give you five things that you can do in early stage

dating that I think most people are not doing

that will make someone fall for you much harder.

All right, let's get started. Number one.

Slow down.

Most of us, if we're human, we get a little nervous on a date.

We get anxious or we even just get excited.

But all of those things produce a pace in the way we talk when we get nervous or excited

We tend to talk faster now sometimes this is a good thing that energy can be fun it can be vibrant.

At other times it means we lose our power

because instead of sometimes sitting back and allowing moments on a date to breathe,

we talk all over everything. We're so fast that nothing we say gets heard,

and we look like we're just anxious. So instead, don't be afraid to slow things down.

Don't be afraid to take a moment to take a sip of your drink or even just in a moment

look up at him and then look down again. You know that little moment where you have a moment of

tension but you don't say anything.

When you allow moments to breathe like that, you show confidence at the same time

as allowing someone to fully take you in.

Number two, let someone finish their story.

When someone else is telling a story,

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