(Rewind): 3 Texts You Can Send to Get Their Attention INSTANTLY

Love Life with Matthew Hussey

Matthew Hussey

Relationships, Society & Culture

4.8 • 2.9K Ratings

🗓️ 19 April 2024

⏱️ 10 minutes

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Summary

On dating apps, first impressions matter.

And after you clear the first hurdle of endless swiping and find someone who piques your interest, it’s often the next step that’s the hardest . . .

That is, of course: What on EARTH do you say to them?!

You scan their bio, hoping inspiration will strike and you’ll manage to figure out the perfect opening gambit. You think:

Would a simple “hey” or “great photo” show a lack of imagination?

I’d like to just be myself, but it can feel so hard to be authentic without seeming too eager . . .

Many times, thoughts like these make us overthink everything to the point where we end up sending something awkward . . . or worse, not sending anything at all, letting the opportunity of connection pass us by.

So how can we make an impression on people who haven’t yet had the chance to meet us and see how awesome we are?

In today’s episode, I’m going to share with you 3 openers you can send right away to stand out on a dating app.

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0:00.0	No doubt there will be someone in the comments who says you can't say that on a first message that you're annoyed at someone that's just really bad and those people don't know how to flirt. flat. Welcome everybody to the Love Life podcast. I am Matthew Hussey and this is a clip from the archives that I think is really
0:36.2	going to help you today. Check it out and I'll speak to you at the end of the episode. What's up everybody?
0:45.0	I just finished a session for my love life club members.
0:48.0	While we were here and we had the flip chart in this call setup,
0:51.0	we wanted to make a video for you. So I wanted to do a video that got back
0:54.6	to basics today by giving you three practical first messages you can send to get someone's
1:02.2	attention on a dating app.
1:04.0	So let's say you've just come across someone you find really attractive.
1:07.0	You want to stand out amidst a sea of people.
1:11.0	What do you send?
1:12.0	Here are three specific messages. One of them shows
1:17.0	your commonality with someone. One of them works because it creates a sense of
1:20.9	challenge and the last one works because it shows you to have a sense of humor.
1:26.0	But each of these I'm going to give you a very specific message you can send.
1:29.7	Before I go into them, at the end of this video, I'm going to give you a key mindset for confidence
1:36.2	that's going to give you the bravery to send these and make a move in the first place.
1:41.6	So don't just leave once I've given you the three messages.
1:44.7	Stay till the end and make sure you get that too.
1:47.0	It's all about knowing what to do
1:49.4	and then having the psychology and the mindset
1:51.8	to actually do it.
1:53.0	Number one, commonality.
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