The idea that nothing's ever going to change is in itself a story and it's a really unhelpful one because it keeps us locked in our pain. And the How can we deal with the fear of never finding our person? I know so many people who are constantly struggling with the

fear and the anxiety of it never happening for them in their love lives and

when we have that fear,

it's not like the acute pain of a heartbreak

where the pain is massive and immediate

and can stop us from even getting through our day.

It's a kind of chronic pain that never goes away.

A pain of loneliness, a pain of longing,

a deep desire for companionship,

and to give our love to somebody, but to have no one to give it too.

And that can make people anxious or sad or lonely over a lifetime.

And I want to speak to everyone out there right now who is relating to this.

Whether you're 35 and you want to have a family and it scares you because you haven't met your person yet,

or whether you're 65 and you're thinking, I just want to find someone to share my life with,

and I'm so scared that I'm never going to find that,

or I'm never going to find that again.

So today I want to share with you three tours that you can use to help you effectively manage

those difficult emotions.

Before we get started, the three tours that I'm going to give you today are actually from one of the later chapters in my new book Love Life.

Have you got your copy yet?

And the reason I ask is not just because I deeply want you to get a copy of this, because I know it's going to help you.

It's also because everyone who gets a copy right now is getting a complimentary ticket to an event I am doing on May the 4th called

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