(Rewind): 3 Simple Ways to Get Them to Call You Instead of Just Texting

Love Life with Matthew Hussey

Matthew Hussey

Relationships, Society & Culture

4.8 • 2.9K Ratings

🗓️ 8 November 2024

⏱️ 5 minutes

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Summary

Over my career, I’ve had so many people ask me how to get someone to actually call them.

We seem to live on our phones these days, and yet, it feels like no one wants to pick them up and actually have a conversation.

We're all good with texting, posting on social media, or sending messages, but when it comes to hearing someone’s voice? Well, that seems like too much to ask.

Or is it?

I've seen people make this way more complicated than it needs to be, so let’s simplify things.

If you're tired of texting endlessly and want to create a real connection through conversation, here are 3 killer techniques to get them to pick up the phone and call you...

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0:00.0	Call me tonight, I want to hear your voice.
0:02.0	You may think that seems a bit assertive, but it's assertive in a good way.
0:07.0	Alright? Do you want to have a phone call tonight?
0:10.0	That's not as sexy. Are you sick of texting?
0:32.9	I am concerned.
0:36.2	Don't get me wrong.
0:36.9	I like texting. I do. I'm not one of those people who says, you know, death to texts.
0:42.3	But I do think that we've lost the art of getting on the phone. And we've sort of culturally been regressed to the level of teenagers in our communication, where the idea of getting on the phone and just speaking suddenly seems like a big deal.
0:59.3	So if you find yourself in an incessant texting conversation with a man and you want to start building some real connection with him by getting on the phone, even if it's not getting on a date yet, at least speaking on the phone.
1:12.9	Here are three ways you can do it.
1:17.9	Number one, issue him an order. Say to him, call me tonight. I want to hear your voice. You may think that seems a bit
1:26.8	assertive, but it's assertive in a good way. You're not
1:29.8	yelling at him, you're simply giving him a directive, which is kind of hot, by the way. Like,
1:35.8	a woman saying, like telling you to do something, I don't think I'm just speaking for me,
1:41.4	Jameson. There's something sexy about that. Call me.
1:45.1	All right.
1:46.1	Do you want to have a phone call tonight?
1:48.4	That's not as sexy.
1:49.9	Call me tonight.
1:50.9	I want to hear your voice.
1:52.1	It's also got a little compliment in it.
1:53.4	You want to hear his voice.
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