It can feel a little much to walk up to someone and say,

you're beautiful, right? It's a lot.

Some people would like that. Some of you in the comments will say I would love

if someone came up to me and said that, in which case I very much hope someone says that to the Love Life podcast. I am Matthew Hussie and this is a clip from

the archives that I think is really going to help you today. Check it out and I'll speak to you at the end of the episode.

Let's talk about compliments, shall we? What are the compliments that create attraction with someone?

And not just that create attraction, but make us stand out in the process.

How do we break through the noise?

Well, I'm going to give you three principles for compliments today.

Number one, compliment the thing that people don't hear every day.

I think, you know, when you see someone's dating at,

the temptation is to go for the low-hanging fruit.

Look for that one picture of them that's photoshopped and airbrushed

where they're looking stunning in that really cool outfit and their eyes are glistening

like two beautiful orbs in the light and then we say you're gorgeous. Wow you

have amazing eyes. That doesn't separate us. It might make someone feel good but

it's white noise if that's what they hear all the time.

Look around the picture.

Look what's going on in the edges.

Look what's happening in the periphery.

What book is on the table that they're reading

that you could complement their choice of books.

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