(Rewind): 13 Subtle Ways to Make Someone Want More With You

Love Life with Matthew Hussey

Matthew Hussey

Relationships, Society & Culture

4.8 • 2.9K Ratings

🗓️ 20 September 2024

⏱️ 18 minutes

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Summary

In today’s new episode, I’ll share with you exactly how to do that through 13 highly practical tips to get him to take you more seriously. Some of these are subtle, but each one of these points can have an outsized impact on how your relationship moves forward.

I really wanted to make this episode because the tone you set in the beginning will serve you throughout your entire relationship, and the influence you can have on being taken seriously by someone is huge. It can determine whether your relationship will be a casual one that’s on their terms, or a committed, loving one where you’re building something together.

And in addition to being practical, this episode breaks down the psychology behind each of these tips and provides you with examples (and in many cases, specific texts) you can customize and make your own.

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0:00.0	What you're doing is attaching value to an event after it's happened so that that person knows
0:09.0	that that event actually had some meaning to you. and it makes it more likely therefore that it will have
0:15.5	meaning for them to. And the What does it take to get a bloody relationship these days? A lot of people finding themselves in these protracted casual situationships,
0:46.0	dynamics that mimic relationships that give people the boyfriend, girlfriend
0:50.9	experience, but try and pin someone down and ask them,
0:54.9	are we actually in a relationship, are we actually exclusive, is this going
0:58.6	somewhere? And suddenly they start to freak out. Is this something you can relate to?
1:03.4	Well, if so, I think this video is going to be one you enjoy very, very much.
1:07.7	I'm going to give you 13 ways to be taken seriously by somebody for a relationship and they are really practical and really easy to do.
1:21.2	Number one, be more than a last minute plan.
1:25.0	It's so easy when we like someone and they text us at the last minute saying,
1:30.0	do you want to do something tonight?
1:31.0	It's so easy to just say yes. Now I'm not saying you should
1:35.4	never respond to a spontaneous offer to see someone but if you find yourself
1:39.8	routinely responding to last minute offers,
1:42.8	then you are devaluing yourself.
1:45.8	Instead, send someone a message back that says,
1:48.9	I'd have loved to, but I have plans tonight.
1:51.3	Maybe give me more than 24 hours notice next time.
1:54.3	Question mark, little blushy smiling face. Number two, don't just go with
2:01.8	their flow on a date.
2:04.6	There's a temptation isn't there to sort of please someone
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