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A Bit of Optimism

Revisited: Love Is Not Enough with couples therapist Shawn McBride

A Bit of Optimism

The Optimism Company from Simon Sinek

Education, Careers, Self-improvement, Business

4.82.3K Ratings

🗓️ 27 May 2025

⏱️ 48 minutes

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Summary

We're taking some time off to bring you even more episodes of A Bit of Optimism that you're going to love! In the meantime, we're revisiting some of our favorite episodes, like this one with couples counselor Shawn McBride. Relationships are hard. No matter how much we like, respect, or love someone, conflict seems inevitable. But even as we fight and disagree, we can also learn the skills we need to resolve our problems. For over two decades, Shawn McBride has helped thousands of couples do the work to strengthen their relationships. And he has tons of practical advice. Shawn sat down with me to discuss the three biggest problems couples face, why I'm a huge fan of his Instagram, and how love can keep relationships afloat, but it's often not enough. This...is A Bit of Optimism. For more on Shawn and his work, check out: @couples_counseling_center @shawnmcbridespeaks and couplescounselingcenter.org

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Relationships, any kind of relationship, is hard. No matter how much we like someone, respect someone, or love someone. It seems that disagreements and fighting are inevitable. And when conflict gets to a breaking point, many of us feel the urge to simply throw in the towel. That's where Sean McBride comes in.

0:23.0

Sean is a couple's therapist, and he runs a practice called the Couples Counseling Center.

0:27.5

I actually found him on Instagram and have become a huge fan of his videos. He's helped thousands

0:32.7

of couples learn the skills to do the work that makes relationships succeed.

0:38.0

And he's got tons of practical advice.

0:40.9

Even if you're not in a romantic relationship,

0:43.1

I think you'll learn a lot from what Sean has to say.

0:46.0

Because in all of our relationships,

0:48.0

be they friends, family, or our colleagues,

0:50.4

we could always do a little more.

0:53.5

This is a bit of optimism.

0:58.8

I am so glad that you joined me today.

1:02.5

I found you on Instagram.

1:05.3

Yes, sir.

1:06.5

And you were, I mean, there's no better way to put it.

1:10.7

You were preaching. I'm a former pastor better way to put it, you were preaching.

1:11.8

I'm a former pastor.

1:13.2

Well, it definitely shows up.

1:15.6

You were preaching the most brilliant metaphor to explain why some couples cannot communicate well.

1:25.3

And your metaphor was that somebody is drowning. Yes.

1:30.3

And you're throwing facts at them. Yes. Yes. You know, I'm drowning. Well, there's a sign

1:38.1

that says no swimming. No swimming after dark. Yeah. It says no lifeguard. Yeah. And the amount of times that we are in relationships where somebody says, I'm in pain, I'm drowning. Yeah. It says no lifeguard. Yeah.

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