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You know sooner or later every married person gets hurt by their spouse and a lot of times that's small things but sometimes it's a really big thing like an affair.

And today we're going to be addressing that and offer some hope if you find yourself in that kind of a dark difficult place.

I'm John Fuller along with Greg Smalley and the fact of the matter is Greg infidelity is painful and it is not easily dealt with

Well it affects both people and the marriage I mean you think about the personal integrity that is damaged as an individual, the broken trust, that broken covenant relationship, the self-esteem of the wounded spouse.

Now wondering, what is it about me that's not good enough

for my spouse?

The secrets, I mean, when we create secrets,

what else haven't've been telling.

Yeah, that just ravish a relationship, the emotional roller coaster, the fights, the conflict,

STDs, a child out of wedlock, there is so much damage that occurs to the individuals

and to the marriage.

But the truth is, God can intervene in any situation, and he has done so remarkably and miraculously in many

many and hundreds thousands of broken marriages we're gonna hear one such

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