Welcome to sex chat for Christian wives.

We're four marriage and sex bloggers discuss the naked truth.

What does God really want for the sexual intimacy in our marriage?

I'm Jay Parker of Hot Holy and Humorous.

I'm Chris Taylor from The Forgiven Wife.

I'm Gay Christmas of Calm, Healthy, Sexy.

I'm Bonnie Burns of Oyster Bed 7. Welcome to another episode of Sex Chat for Christian Wives.

Thanks for taking time to join us as we visit around our virtual kitchen table.

Today we're talking about resources for your marriage and specifically about resources

to help you enjoy great sex in your marriage. But first, let's take a minute to figure out why

we're even talking about resources. I mean, shouldn't we just know what to do in order to have

fun with our husbands and enjoy sex and intimacy in our marriages?

I mean, how hard can it be?

Well, the basics are not in the vaults.

So I remember years ago, we were kind of not in a rut, but sort of a routine.

And I decided I was going to look up some ideas and I

pulled a book off the shelf that was a Christian book about sexuality and I remember flipping

over to the part on positions and it had four positions pretty much all of which we'd done in the first week of marriage.

Because they were all very straightforward things.

And I just had no idea what else was out there really.

And I'm sure we could have just explored and discovered all those things on

our own but it's kind of a shortcut to have advice out there and solid good advice with tips and

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