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All right, so have you had to, like I recently did, say to your spouse,

Annie, I'm really sorry.

I'm not going to say it was within the past 24 hours although it was when I had to say

you were emotional and I was factual and I'm sorry that's not what you needed and things improve from there let's just leave

it at that I'm John Fuller along with Dr. Greg Smalley and we're going to hear more

about the language of apologies in your marriage

from pastor Ted Cunningham as he spoke with Jim Daly.

Ted let me ask you this last time we touched on how to apologize but we did that fairly quickly let's come back to

that for a minute how do we craft an appropriate heartfelt honest apology

when we've wounded someone yeah it needs to be rooted in my actions and my words, not the emotions of the other person.

And I think that's where I make mistakes.

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