Welcome to the Jill on Money show. It's Thursday, April 9th, and we are here trying to answer

your financial questions. If you've got one, please just go to our website, jillonmoney.com,

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And the reason why we like having you come on the air is that we are all voyeurs.

We love hearing your stories.

And we just want to always scratch beneath that question. The surface of that

question is what's bothering you. But from our purposes, because Mark and I are both certified

financial planners, hearing more of the emotional part of what you're thinking about and doing

and contemplating is also very important. Of course, we know that you are shy out

there. There have been so many people who say to us, like, I could not ever come on. But we would

protect you. We change names. We'll change locations. The only thing we can't do is we're not

altering your voice. Although, Mark, I'm sure we could do that. I would like to make it like it's a 60 minutes piece and we can protect the voice. What do you think? Can we do it? I'm sure that ability exists. I haven't had to do it in 15 years. I know, right? So, anyway, we're going to do some emails today because I do want to help the shy folks.

So Steph has got some big decisions and needs some support.

Okay.

The subject is reset dilemma advice.

Remember, my book is called The Great Money Reset.

It was about all of you who inspired me to write this, you know, before the pandemic,

but even more so during the pandemic. So Steph says, I was in a totally different place 10

years ago. Living paycheck to paycheck, marriage provided some stability and the opportunity

to leave an unfulfilling job. Okay.

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