Rerelease: July & The Abusive Communication Manipulator | Domestic Violence & Narcissistic Abuse

Narcissist Apocalypse: Patterns of Abuse

Abuse Survivor Network

Self-improvement, Education, Society & Culture, Relationships

4.8 • 740 Ratings

🗓️ 31 January 2025

⏱️ 85 minutes

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In this episode of Narcissist Apocalypse, July shares her story of abuse at the hands of a manipulative narcissist. July thought she met the perfect man, but he turned out to be the perfect wolf in sheep's clothing. By exploiting July's biggest strength, July's ex turned it into her biggest weakness, which almost cost July her life. It’s a story of anxious attachment, communication manipulation, avoiding confrontation, toxic masculinity, sexual coercion, & the support of your friends. Plus they discuss, the silent treatment, stonewalling, gaslighting, guilt, shame, trauma, nightmares, rage, blame shifting, conforming, peacemaking, crazy making, believing the lies you're told, doubt, and much more. *** TRIGGER WARNING - This episode discusses graphic descriptions of sexual coercion and physical violence. **** If you want to be a guest on our survivor story podcast, please click here or send us an email at [email protected] If you want to be a guest on our survivor story podcast, please click here or send us an email at [email protected] To help out our podcast, please fill out our listener survey, click here. PODCAST RECOMMENDATIONS: Perfect Prey With Dr. Christine Cocchiola | Click Here The Covert Narcissism Podcast | Click Here Something Was Wrong | Click Here When Dating Hurts Podcast | Click Here If you or someone you know are experiencing abuse, you are not alone. DomesticShelters.org offers an extensive library of articles and resources that can help you make sense of what you're experiencing, connect you with local resources and find ways to heal and move forward. Visit www.domesticshelters.org to access this free resource. If you need help moving due to domestic violence, Shelter Movers may be able to help you. They operate by referral. Clients may be referred by any person of authority (social worker, doctor, police, crisis counselor, teacher, etc.) or public agency (shelter, hospital, school, workplace, place of worship, sexual assault centre, etc.). To reach them, click here. Join our new Community Social Network at https://community.narcissistapocalypse.com/ Join our Instagram Channel at https://www.instagram.com/narcissistapocalypse Join our Youtube Channel at https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCpTIgjTqVJa4caNWMIAJllA Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:30.7	On this episode of Narcissist Apocalypse, we talk with an abuse survivor named July, and
0:37.4	July was in a controlling relationship with a physical abuser.
0:40.8	It's a story of anxious attachment, communication manipulation, avoiding confrontation, toxic masculinity, sexual coercion, and the support of your friends.
1:17.0	Welcome to Narcissist Apocalypse, everyone.
1:20.4	I am Brandon Chadwick.
1:24.0	And with me today, we have July.
1:25.1	How are you?
1:26.8	I'm doing well.
1:33.5	I'm happy to be here. How are you? I'm doing well. I'm happy to be here. How are you? I am doing well. And for those of you that want to be a guest on our show like July is today, please do go to our website at
1:38.0	Narcissistapocalypse.com. Top of the page. There's a button that says guest form. When you
1:43.4	click on that button, it takes you to our guest form page, read all the page. There's a button that says guest form. When you click on that button, it takes
1:45.5	you to our guest form page, read all the instructions. There's a lot of instructions.
1:50.0	Either send us an email at Narcissist Apocalypse at gmail.com or press the submit button on the
1:55.6	guest form page after you fill it in. And today's story has a couple of trigger warnings July's story has a physical abuse
2:05.2	sexual abuse sexual coercion that we discuss so if this is not for you please turn this episode
2:11.6	off so that is the trigger warning for today and a really big thank you to July for being here because I like having on our show
2:22.2	therapists, people in the mental health field just to show that this can happen to anyone and
2:27.7	that there's no shame that these things happen, that you're in abusive relationships so now with that being said
2:39.1	um i just want to thank july one more time for being here and now without further ado july
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