Rerelease: Julia & The Psychologically Abusive Rambo | Domestic Violence & Narcissistic Abuse

Narcissist Apocalypse: Patterns of Abuse

Abuse Survivor Network

Relationships, Education, True Crime, Society & Culture, Self-improvement

4.7 • 792 Ratings

🗓️ 4 April 2025

⏱️ 95 minutes

🔗️ Recording | iTunes | RSS

🧾️ Download transcript

Summary

In this episode of Narcissist Apocalypse, Julia shares her story of marrying a scary psychological abuser. Julia fell for her husband immediately. He was charismatic, a protector, great with children, and had aspirations to be a fireman. Julia's husband checked all of her boxes. He was the man of her dreams. But unfortunately for Julia, her husband slowly morphed from someone she trusted to someone she feared. It's a story of caretaking, fear , feeling alien, being good enough, rage, double standards, gaslighting, infidelity, being voiceless, self esteem, patriarchal systems, generational trauma, nitpicking, body issues, mixed messages , cognitive dissonance, intimidation, security, safety, child self harm, suicidal ideation, guilt, trauma, and feelings. *** CONTENT WARNING - This episode has graphic descriptions of child self harm, physical intimidation, and strong language. *** If you want to be a guest on our survivor story podcast, please click here or send us an email at narcissistapocalypse@gmail.com To help out our podcast, please fill out our listener survey, click here. PODCAST RECOMMENDATIONS: Perfect Prey With Dr. Christine Cocchiola | Click Here The Covert Narcissism Podcast | Click Here Something Was Wrong | Click Here When Dating Hurts Podcast | Click Here If you or someone you know are experiencing abuse, you are not alone. DomesticShelters.org offers an extensive library of articles and resources that can help you make sense of what you're experiencing, connect you with local resources and find ways to heal and move forward. Visit www.domesticshelters.org to access this free resource. If you need help moving due to domestic violence, Shelter Movers may be able to help you. They operate by referral. Clients may be referred by any person of authority (social worker, doctor, police, crisis counselor, teacher, etc.) or public agency (shelter, hospital, school, workplace, place of worship, sexual assault centre, etc.). To reach them, click here. Join our new Community Social Network at https://community.narcissistapocalypse.com/ Join our Instagram Channel at https://www.instagram.com/narcissistapocalypse Join our Youtube Channel at https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCpTIgjTqVJa4caNWMIAJllA

Transcript

Click on a timestamp to play from that location

0:00.0	On this episode of Narcissist Apocalypse, we talk with an abuse survivor named Julia,
0:06.8	and Julia was married to a psychologically abusive Rambo.
0:11.0	It's a story of generational trauma, caretaking, rage, intimidation, infidelity, child self-harm, and feeling whole.
0:52.4	Welcome to Narcissist Apocalypse, everyone. I am Brandon Chadwick, and with me today, we have Julia. How are you?
0:55.2	I'm good. Thanks. How are you?
1:01.8	I am doing well. And if you want to be a guest like Julia is today, please do go to our website at Narcissistapocalypse.com. Top of the page, there's a button that says guest form.
1:05.8	When you click on that button, it takes you to our guest form page.
1:10.2	Please do read all of the instructions
1:11.8	and either send us an email at Narcissistapocalypse at gmail.com or fill out our guest form and press
1:16.9	the submit button. And please do read all of the instructions and send it in the format that we
1:20.9	ask for. And today you are going to hear Julia's story. And there's a big trigger warning on this episode. We have strong
1:31.2	language in this episode. We discussed suicidal ideation in this episode. There is child self-harm
1:38.9	in this episode, and it's a graphic description of child self-harm in this episode, as well as
1:47.3	physical aggressiveness. It's not physical violence where there's actual, like, hitting going on
1:55.2	or physical abuse going on, but it's right to that level where it's going to happen. So it's a very
2:00.7	intimidating physical aggressiveness. So it's a very intimidating physical
2:01.8	aggressiveness. So a big, big trigger warning on this episode. There will be one spot where I will
2:07.9	give a big trigger warning as it is happening. And that is because it's the part where there is
2:14.1	child self-harm graphic description going on.
2:19.1	So that will be in there.
2:23.7	And when it comes to Julia's story in this show,
2:26.8	we have had all different types of abusers from the Lundy Bancroft list of abuser types.
	...

Please login to see the full transcript.

Previous episode | Next episode

Disclaimer: The podcast and artwork embedded on this page are from Abuse Survivor Network, and are the property of its owner and not affiliated with or endorsed by Tapesearch.

Generated transcripts are the property of Abuse Survivor Network and are distributed freely under the Fair Use doctrine. Transcripts generated by Tapesearch are not guaranteed to be accurate.