Remy & The Jealous Hypocritical Abuser

Narcissist Apocalypse: Patterns of Abuse

Abuse Survivor Network

True Crime, Society & Culture, Education, Relationships, Self-improvement

4.7 • 791 Ratings

🗓️ 17 May 2026

⏱️ 78 minutes

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Summary

In this episode of Narcissist Apocalypse, Remy shares her story of being in a long-term relationship with a jealous and hypocritical abuser. What began as intense attention from someone she remembered from high school slowly became a relationship shaped by accusations, projection, infidelity, physical intimidation, monitoring, and control. Remy talks about being accused of cheating while her partner was secretly pursuing other women, the way his jealousy made her defend herself again and again, and how the good times kept making the bad times harder to name. She also shares what happened after she finally left, including the post-separation harassment, the rebuilding of her life, and the complicated grief that followed when her abuser suddenly died.

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0:00.0	On this episode of Narcissist Apocalypse, we talk with an abuse survivor name Remy,
0:06.8	and Remy was married to an intimidating hypocritical abuser.
0:11.2	It's a story of jealousy, projection, infidelity, the abuser dying, and grief.
0:41.9	Music and grief. Welcome to Narcissist Apocalypse, everyone.
0:47.4	I am Brandon Chadwick and with me today we have Remy.
0:48.3	How are you?
0:50.2	Doing well today.
0:50.6	How are you?
0:52.6	I am doing well.
0:53.9	Thank you for asking. And if you want to be a guest like
0:55.5	Remy is today, please do go to our website at Narcissistapocalypse.com, click on the guest form
1:02.0	button, fill it out, and press the submit button. Also, we have a support group at our website.
1:08.9	We have Zoom meetings every Wednesday nights, Thursday
1:11.0	afternoons, and Saturday nights, and we have forum boards for you to post on to get the validation
1:15.5	that you need from survivors just like you. That is our support group at Narcissistapocalypse.com,
1:21.5	and we also have a newsletter at Narcissistapocalypse.com, and you get a free workbook for every new survivor story with every new
1:29.9	newsletter. That is weekly, all at Narcissistapocalypse.com. And we do have a content warning for today
1:36.6	as we do discuss physical abuse in this story. So that is your content warning for today. And today
1:42.2	you're going to hear Remy's story. And Remy was married to a
1:45.1	jealous hypocrite. He was volatile. But there were also good times. He was fun when he was fun.
1:51.6	But eventually the bad times came roaring back one day and they just didn't stop. And Remy did
1:58.1	leave and was healing. But then the abuser died.
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