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All right, here's Captain Obvious. You married someone who is very different from

you. In many ways though God designed it that way. I know Jim Daley has said

that time and again. He's made it so that we can compliment each other and help

each other grow. And sometimes those differences are really irritating and

other times they're pretty serious. I'm John Fuller in the studio with Erin

Smolley. She's a professional counselor married to Greg Smolley who heads up

our marriage team. Greg is out of the studio today, but Erin is stepping up to

the challenge. Let's go ahead and kick off this episode with a conversation

pretty fun one that Jim Daley and I had with Melanie Shankle who wrote a book

called The Antelope in the Living Room. And here she is explaining to us the

rather humorous story behind that book title. Melanie, it's great to have you

back at Focus on the Family. Thank you. It's great to be here. Okay, let's

start right there. I mean, the whole thing about the Antelope in the living room.

I'm assuming that's a stuffed Antelope head, but what's going on with that

title? You are correct. You're correct. My husband, my sweet husband is a

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