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When you're first falling in love with that special someone that you are

thinking, I'd like to marry them. It can be a super exciting time. But falling

in love can also uncover some of your deepest fears and insecurities. And if

you're struggling to get over some past hurts, it's especially important to

recognize and deal with those hurts because those impact your love life. And if

you get married, your relationship with your spouse. I'm John Fuller in the

studio with Aaron Smolley. Her husband Greg is AWOL today. No, he's not in the

studio with us as he often is. But we're going to press on Aaron because you've

got some good insights. We're going to hear now from author and counselor Deborah

Filetta. Now she talked with Jim Daley and me about the seasons of marriage. She

got a pretty unique take on this. She talked about spring, which is when a

couple tends to fall in love. And she'll discuss some ways that we can

navigate challenges during that particular season. Let's get to a practical

story. There's one in your book about a woman you cancels who struggled with

trust issues. I think so many women in trust is a big deal. And for women

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