Relationships: Giving Vs. Getting Your Needs Met

Coach Corey Wayne

Relationships, Society & Culture

4.6 • 532 Ratings

🗓️ 8 July 2021

⏱️ 22 minutes

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How to find the right balance in relationships between giving and getting your needs met.

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0:00.0	Hi, I'm Coach Corey Wayne and this is my video coaching newsletter. And the topic of today's
0:05.2	newsletter is going to be relationships giving versus getting your needs met. So I've got an email
0:11.8	success story. This particular guy, he's young, he's 22, his girlfriend is 24. They've been dating
0:18.9	since December. So that's about what, eight months now that they've
0:23.0	been together. They became exclusive in May, obviously after she brought it up because he's a pretty
0:28.2	good student of my first book, 3% Man. He says he's read it 10 times. And they've both been through
0:35.0	the five love languages, and both of them, their love language, is quality time.
0:41.3	But he says the thing that's different from what I talk about in the book is they're only seeing each other one to two times per week and she only reaches out every four to five days after they've seen each other.
0:53.3	And since quality time supposedly is both of their love language, every four to five days after they've seen each other.
1:00.0	And since quality time supposedly is both of their love languages, he's thinking, how come she's not calling and texting me a couple times a day?
1:04.1	And so he's bothered by the amount of time that they're spending together.
1:08.8	And so just at the outset, if you're familiar what's in 3% man, you know,
1:15.2	if you follow the progression in the book with most women, these are assuming their normal,
1:19.8	happy, healthy women, will be in love with you by about week seven. So if you think about the fact they started dating in December when they met and they,
1:31.2	she didn't ask them to be exclusive till May.
1:33.7	That was almost six months.
1:36.3	And so one of two things is going on there.
1:39.0	Either she's a little messed up, which is totally possible.
1:43.7	Or on some level level he's still
1:46.1	communicating that he's way more into her than she is in him and he's trying a
1:53.3	little too hard and she could sense that and feel that in other words he's
1:57.9	becoming perturbed and it's coming through in their communication.
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