When narcissistic people often fantasize salespeople, because they have a tremendous ability to study

another person, get the intel and use it for their own narcissistic needs.

If you can trust any part of what someone says is the truth that's inconvenient for them to say.

When something is essential to your being, when something is essential to the way you want

of their life, you no longer really have to worry about whether you can. You just do it.

You're listening to Sex with Emily. I'm Dr. Emily and I'm here to help you prioritize your

pleasure and liberate the conversation around sex. We've all heard of red flags in relationships,

but let's be honest. Sometimes they can be terribly hard to spot, especially when you really

want a relationship to work or if the other person is super hot. Am I right? That's why I'm bringing

you a special episode today. Focus on all things red flags and green flags with two of my top

voices on the matter. Psychologist and author Dr. Romani and YouTube's favorite dating coach,

Matthew Hussey. Dr. Romani and I take a deep dive on narcissism and talk through things like

love bombing, devaluation and the different types of narcissists out there, as well as the

personality types you tend to fall for them. And if you're thinking, I wouldn't possibly fall

for that nonsense. Think again. These folks are master manipulators and at their core, deeply

insecure. Next, Matthew Hussey walks us through our own less than ideal tendencies, such as why

we keep going for a loop and unavailable people, how we repeat painful patterns from our childhood,

and how we ignore someone's inconvenient truth. But Matthew also tells us what to look for when

we're dating someone new, such as curiosity. They're equally invested in the relationship and

consistency with words and actions. So if you're dating right now, listen to this episode twice.

All right, intentions with Emily. For each episode, join me in setting an intention for the show.

I do it and I encourage you to do the same. My intention is to help you recognize your dating

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