Relationship Expert on Identifying Red Flags, Narcissistic Behavior, Surviving a Break-Up & Answering YOUR Questions about Love

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Mayim Bialik

Mental Health, Society & Culture, Wellness, Health & Fitness, Comedy, Thebigbangtheory, Spirituality, Selfimprovement, Mentalhealth

4.7 • 5.2K Ratings

🗓️ 15 April 2025

⏱️ 102 minutes

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Summary

Lori Gottlieb, psychotherapist and bestselling author of Maybe You Should Talk to Someone, is helping us answer burning questions from our MBB audience like: “Am I in love or just attached?" “How do you know if you're in love?” “How do I build trust in a relationship?” From relationship red flags and how to communicate better with your partner to knowing when you’ve found "the one," Lori uncovers why we stay in toxic relationships, the truth about vulnerability, and how to fix your relationship after betrayal. Plus, get expert advice on setting boundaries, identifying red flags & narcissistic behavior, finding the right therapist, and how to move on after a break-up. Don’t miss her tips on keeping love alive and making relationships work. Plus, stay tuned for some surprising red flags from Mayim and Jonathan. This is the ultimate guide to unlocking your healthiest connections!

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0:00.0	If your story is, I'm unlovable.
0:03.1	You're going to pick partners who treat you poorly.
0:07.7	You will do things to actually make yourself unlovable.
0:11.9	You will create friction, conflict.
0:14.7	And so until you realize I am operating with this plotline, everything I do is dictated by this story.
0:24.0	Lori Gottlie, she's been featured on Oprah, Good Morning America, CNN, NPR's Fresh Air.
0:29.2	Her TED Talk from 2019 was one of the top 10 most watched of the year.
0:34.1	It shouldn't take a betrayal for people to wake up in their relationships. Go out there
0:38.7	and learn something about yourself. If your partner won't do that, then that's a marital issue.
0:44.4	That's not an issue with his family. That's an issue in your marriage. We're telling the truth
0:49.0	through our own perspective. And we think that our perspective is the objective perspective,
0:54.1	that the other person's
0:55.2	perspective is somehow subjective or off, but ours is objective. How well are you listening to
1:00.6	the other person?
1:06.4	It's official. My and B. Alex breakdown has been nominated for a Webby Award, and we could not be more thrilled.
1:14.3	Before we dive into today's episode, we want to take a quick second to ask that you do us a huge favor.
1:21.0	Go to vote.webbyawards.com and cast your vote for our show. It's under the health, wellness, and lifestyle podcast category.
1:29.6	And while you're at it, ask your friends and loved ones to please do the same.
1:32.9	It means the world to us to be up for this award.
1:35.6	We appreciate your support more than we can say, please vote.
1:39.4	Now, on to the episode.
1:41.9	Hi, I am Biallick.
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