I amla. I had a baby daddy relationship. I spent time in a relationship with a married man.

I had to learn the skills and tools required to make my relationships healthy, fulfilling, and loving.

Welcome to the R-Spot, a production of Shandaland Audio in partnership with I Heart Radio. Welcome back to the R-Spot I am Yonla and today we're talking about something I don't think many people talk about and that is our

relationship with the world and how it impacts our relationship with ourselves

Because if what you hear in the world is war and againstness and hatred and you've got opinions and you've got preferences, you know, are you for abortion and not for abortion.

Are you for this candidate or not that candidate.

And the mere fact that most people don't even feel safe to talk about what they're thinking

and feeling about their elected officials says that you know there's something going on

that we don't feel safe that we don't want to be attacked that we don't want you know

whacker-Doodles knocking on our door or threatening us.

You know there is so much going on in the world.

I don't care where you look I don't care where you live I don't care who you are there is a lot

going on and a lot of it doesn't look good a lot of it doesn't feel good there is

so much coming at us that unless you're just watching reruns of the golden girls,

you're going to get hit with some of the stuff, no matter where you go, whether you watch the news or read the newspapers, people are talking about all of the

wahala and the conflomeration that is going on in the world today between the violence and the wars and the

I want to say againstness the political discord health issues, money issues.

I mean, is the economy doing better or is it not?

Can you even tell?

Because I thought everything was fine

and then I found out it wasn't because that's what's

coming at me. So our relationship with the world really impacts our

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