Your boys need to know, not only that you love them, which is important.

They need to know that you think that they're strong.

Now remember those one time in particular, I pushed them to do something he didn't think he could do and he

did it and he walked him afterwards and said daddy you make me feel powerful. Welcome to Family Life Today, where we want to help you pursue the relationships that matter most.

I'm Shelby Abbott and your hosts are

Dave and Ann Wilson. You can find us at family life today.com. This is family life

today. 7 years ago we're doing a marriage conference in Dallas my buddy John

Kitten who played for the Alliance is now a coach for the Cowboys.

He finds out we're in Dallas for the weekend.

They're playing the Vikings on Sunday night and says, well you come over and do chapel

for the Cowboys Saturday night.

Yeah, I'll do it.

I get this message together.

I'm driving to the facility.

Chapples in like 20 minutes and John calls me and goes,

hey, here's what you need to talk about.

I go, dude, it's 20 minutes.

Right, right, I've already got my gosh together. And he goes, I'm a coach on this team.

I know what this team needs. I'm telling you what to talk about. I go, sorry John. I'm not switching it. I can't even write anything down. I'm driving. He goes, I'm telling you what to talk about. You're the, you, your stuff on manhood is what this team needs talk about that I'm like okay I'll figure

something out so I get there and I get up and my opening line was this I've been in

the NFL locker rooms for 30 plus seasons.

NFL locker rooms are full of boys and few men.

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