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Rationally Speaking Podcast

Rationally Speaking #244 - Stephanie Lepp and Buster Benson on "Seeing other perspectives, with compassion"

Rationally Speaking Podcast

New York City Skeptics

Society & Culture, Skepticism, Science, Philosophy

4.6787 Ratings

🗓️ 30 November 2019

⏱️ 42 minutes

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Summary

This episode features a pair of interviews on a similar topic: First, Stephanie Lepp (host of the Reckonings podcast) discusses what she's learned from interviewing people who had a serious change of heart, or "reckoning," including a former Neo-nazi and a former sex offender. What causes a reckoning? Second, Buster Benson (author of Why Are We Yelling? The art of productive disagreement) shares his tips for coming away from a disagreement feeling more alive -- for example, don't just focus on the literal arguments the other person is making; drill deeper. Buster and Julia debate whether there's a downside to approaching disagreements emotionally, rather than intellectually.

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1:00.7

Welcome to Rationally Speaking, the podcast where we explore the borderlands between reason and nonsense.

1:05.3

I'm your host, Julia Galef, and I'm trying something a little different for this episode.

1:10.0

Instead of one conversation, I have two separate guests on a similar topic.

1:12.3

I got the idea from the fact that I like to read two or three books at the same time on the same topic to get kind of a 3D look at it,

1:17.4

like binocular vision. So our topic today is changing your mind or shifting your perspective,

1:23.7

and both of my guests approach the topic from a position of unusual compassion and empathy.

1:29.6

I'm delighted to introduce Stephanie Lep.

1:32.1

She is the creator and host of the Reckinings podcast, which I suspect listeners of rationally speaking will greatly enjoy.

1:39.1

It's about Reckonings, which is Stephanie's great word for really significant changes of mind, the kind of changes that

1:46.2

force you to reckon with your life, your identity, maybe your sense of right and wrong.

1:52.3

Her guests include a former neo-Nazi, former climate change skeptic turned climate change

1:57.6

activist, Facebook executive who came to see social media as harmful.

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