RANT: My Biggest Personal Regret [Business, mindset, entrepreneur, disruptors]

Disruptors

Rob Moore

Careers, How To, Business, Self-improvement, Society & Culture, Marketing, Investing, Education, Entrepreneurship

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🗓️ 3 November 2021

⏱️ 19 minutes

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Something that Rob finds difficult to share but that he has been asked a lot, is what has been his biggest regret. He has thought about it a lot and it has caused the way he has treated everyone in his life. Listen in to find out what it is, how it has impacted his life and how he is making big changes. Secret Leaders Podcast Listen Now https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/secret-leaders/id1229438369Learn what it’s really like to be a top entrepreneur and how to get there from founders of startups like Monzo, BrewDog, Jo Malone, Slack, and Lastminute.com KEY TAKEAWAYS Rob discovered the place his hurt has come from in therapy. When you feel valued and good as a human being then you don’t hurt others. Hurt people, hurt people. His biggest regret is how he has felt about himself most of his life, his self-esteem. In school he had to become a chameleon and a people pleaser to get approval and to survive. It lead to him having no idea who he was. Imagine what the world would be like if we all filled ourselves up with self worth. We need to learn to love ourselves for who we are and understand we are worthy of love no matter what. BEST MOMENTS “I’ve hurt people and done things that other perceived to be wrong” “I hated it and therefore hated myself” “Stop comparing yourself to others” [Business, mindset, entrepreneur, disruptors] VALUABLE RESOURCES https://robmoore.com/ bit.ly/Robsupporter https://robmoore.com/podbooks rob.team ABOUT THE HOST Rob Moore is an author of 9 business books, 5 UK bestsellers, holds 3 world records for public speaking, entrepreneur, property investor, and property educator. Author of the global bestseller “Life Leverage” Host of UK’s No.1 business podcast “Disruptors” “If you don't risk anything, you risk everything” CONTACT METHOD Rob’s official website: https://robmoore.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/robmooreprogressive/?ref=br_rs LinkedIn: https://uk.linkedin.com/in/robmoore1979 disruptive, disruptors, entreprenuer, business, social media, marketing, money, growth, scale, scale up, risk, property: http://www.robmoore.com

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0:00.0	We are all good at handling people and situations when we feel good about ourselves.
0:07.3	My biggest personal regret now, I don't really want to share this.
0:13.2	But I get asked there a lot, you know, what's your biggest regret?
0:17.6	Your greatest mistake, your biggest failure, and I know why people ask it.
0:24.2	But it's not really something I've ever wanted to publicly share.
0:28.2	So I have thought about this a lot, and I have one biggest regret.
0:35.4	And it's actually not anything I've done to anyone, but it's caused everything I've
0:41.0	ever done to anyone. So I don't want to hurt people. I don't want to be unkind to people.
0:50.7	I want to give people equal opportunity. I don't want to lose my shit with people. I want to treat
0:55.4	people respectfully, but I've hurt people and I've done things that other people have perceived
1:05.1	to be wrong. And it's all come and stemmed from one place. And it was actually my therapist
1:13.1	who managed to unearth this. Now there's this saying called hurt people hurt people.
1:21.7	Let me know if you've ever heard of that. And if you think that there's truth in that statement,
1:26.6	hurt people hurt people. I know for a fact, I've never hurt anyone or said anything unkind to anyone
1:35.9	when I've been in a state of gratitude, and when I've felt valuable myself as a human being.
1:43.0	Because I think when you feel valuable as a human being,
1:46.9	and when you feel good about who you are and what you provide, how could you ever
1:57.6	want to hurt anyone else? Criticize gain or enact a revenge or try and beat someone down.
2:08.1	So my greatest regret is how I've felt about myself for much of my life.
2:16.6	So I was the fattest kid in my school in my year. So in my school when I was in the top year
2:27.4	between sort of age 11 and 13. And I fucking hated myself. I hated looking in the mirror. I hated
2:35.6	how I looked. I hated how other people perceived me. What other people said about me. I absolutely
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