Raised to Ignore Your Feelings as a Child; Long Term Effects of Childhood Emotional Neglect
Lisa A Romano Breakdown to Breakthroughs
Lisa A. Romano
4.8 • 805 Ratings
🗓️ 13 July 2020
⏱️ 19 minutes
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Summary
When you are raised by parents who have their own unresolved trauma, they can miss the mark while raising you. One of the longtime effects of childhood emotional neglect, is being brainwashed to ignore your own feelings. As a result, many adult children of narcissistic, alcoholic, or immature parents grow up guessing at what normal is.
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| 0:00.0 | Welcome to the Breakdown to Breakthrough podcast. |
| 0:06.0 | My name is Lisa A. Romano. |
| 0:08.0 | I am a life coach, best selling author, YouTube vlogger, meditation teacher, an expert in the field of codependency and narcissistic abuse. |
| 0:16.0 | I am a believer in the power of an organized mind. |
| 0:20.0 | My aim is to help people learn what it means to live above the veil of consciousness |
| 0:24.9 | rather than living a reactive life. |
| 0:28.3 | May your heart feel blessed, your mind feel expanded, and your spirit find hope |
| 0:32.8 | as you spend time with me here at the Breakdown to Breakthrough podcast. |
| 0:39.1 | Namaste, Lisa A. Romano here, the Breakthrough Life Coach. |
| 0:42.0 | And today I want to talk about abuse by omission, which I think is a really clever term |
| 0:47.4 | to describe what so many of us from dysfunctional homes experience. |
| 0:51.4 | If you're like me, you lived in a home that was not overtly abusive. |
| 0:56.2 | And it's difficult when you come from a home like that when what's wrong is what's missing. |
| 1:02.2 | When you grow up, you don't have things to point out for why you're perfectionistic or why you're |
| 1:09.0 | bulimic or why you cut yourself or why you are neurotic |
| 1:13.2 | or why you can't get along with others or why you're impulsive or why you're a risk taker or why |
| 1:19.1 | intimate relationships make you uncomfortable or why you have trouble in your relationships |
| 1:24.0 | or why you are so critical of others and so ridiculously critical of yourself |
| 1:29.3 | and so sensitive when other people have anything to say about you whatsoever. Adult children of |
| 1:35.6 | alcoholics are super, super, super, super, super sensitive. Their skin is raw and they have been abused. |
| 1:42.4 | And the problem is very often they aren't aware that their skin is |
| 1:47.1 | raw because they haven't had the experience of having their pain objectified. And so when you're a small |
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